Movie Rant: Like Crazy

(Warning: Spoilers)

Like Crazy. As in, hurts Like Crazy. To watch. You keep thinking everything’s going to get better, and it just doesn’t. It just punches you in the groin repeatedly, and then spits in your face. It squeezes your heart like an angry overweight man squeezing a stress ball. It reaches deep within you and rips out every one of your internal organs one by bloody one.

Like Crazy, unlike most modern romances, is not here to make you feel better. It’s not here to pat you on the back and tell you that there’s someone out there for you and it’ll all be okay. It’s here to make you feel like total and utter crap. “Masochism” doesn’t even begin to describe it. This is a film that sinks to Frederick Nietzsche levels of nihilism.

Okay, so maybe I’m being a little dramatic. But having just watched the film, it’s difficult not to feel just a little upset. Most romances can be comfortably divided into about four acts: Act One, where interest is established between to the two leads, Act Two, where the two leads start dating, Act Three, where the relationship goes to crap and lots of sad music and montages are played while both characters walk around and cry, and finally Act Four, the happily ever after.

Like Crazy goes to Act One, then skips directly to act three and just stays there. It’s a movie solely about pain and frustration, about painfully sad music and buckets of anguish and tears. It’s a horrible, brutal, realistic view of what love is really like, and how it really ends. A friend of mine once said that love is nothing more than a promise to hurt someone more deeply than they’ve ever been hurt before. The writers of this film certainly agree, and after having watched the film it’s hard not to agree myself.

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But I suppose that’s the hidden genius of this movie. Anna and Jack both grew up seeing the same movies that we did, and reading the same books. They have the same idealized vision of love and romance that we do. They, like us as we watch the film, believe that everything will work out in the end. It’s true love that they have, after all. How could things not work out?

It’s this pursuit of perfection that drives them to do all the crazy things that they do. They both give up perfectly good relationships with people that were wonderful, kind, and caring people because they couldn’t get the thought out of their heads that there was some perfect soulmate out there for them and that they would never be truly happy until they were with that person. Anna and Jack do finally end up with each other…but there’s no happy music. There’s no sunset. There’s only the realization that whatever they once had, is gone. The relationship they once had now exists only in their memories.

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It almost makes you want to scream at them for ditching their wonderful, amazing partners and running away toward some fantasy shimmering on the horizon like a mirage. But then, at the same time, how can you blame them? Neither Jack nor Anna are really happy in their ancillary relationships, and staying with someone you’re not truly devoted to is a disservice to both them and yourself. Maybe there isn’t someone better for us out there…but how can you know for sure? Do you stay with someone that makes you happy, or do you chase someone that might be able to make you happier?

Like Crazy certainly doesn’t have an answer. Maybe there isn’t one. At the end of the day, perhaps none of us truly know what to do. All we know is how we feel. Crazy.

Sunday Series: The Sopranos

The Sopranos S1E1: “Pilot” Recap and Analysis

“Mid-Life Crisis in a Nutshell” might be a good name for the first episode of The Sopranos.  Of course, being the mob boss of a dying breed of criminals, with a family of fiery, old-fashioned Italian relatives, probably makes for slightly more chaotic and emotionally complex life crisis than your average middle-aged adult might face.

It’s a testament to the sheer strength of will and character possessed by protagonist Tony Soprano, that he handles the swirling vortices of stress and trauma as well as he does. That’s not to say he’s the epitome of tranquility and grace, but in comparison to his boisterous family members and colleagues, Tony manages a remarkable degree of composure. But the cracks are beginning to appear, and after a family of ducks that had been nesting in his pool take flight and vanish into the sky, Tony finally decides to seek help in the form of a therapist.

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Tony’s visit to the therapist sets the backdrop for the episode, and it’s a clever framing device for the unfortunate truckload of exposition necessary in pilot episodes. We’re quickly introduced to the modern era’s version of organized crime: where once labor unions and bootleg liquor were the bread and butter of the mafia, now we have Waste Management companies and garbage, Health Corporations and insurance fraud. Evading the law is also a lot more difficult. New technologies, new legislations, “the RICO Statutes,” as Tony tells his therapist irritably. Later in the episode we hear Tony bemoan the bygone integrity of his ancestors, how now “everyone’s turning states witness. No one’s got room in their life for the penal system”.

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The changing nature of the times and the decay of the old families is a theme we see repeated throughout the episode. The Sopranos and those they associate with are a fondue of hypocrisy and malice, the antithesis of the tradition nuclear family of the 1950’s. “You’ve become a master of lying and deceit!” Carmela screams at her daughter, Meadow; later we find out that Carmela herself is engaged in an affair with a priest, or “becoming a better catholic”, as she calls it. Tony claims to have stopped seeing his former mistress; shortly before a fancy dinner with his wife we see him frolicking with a busty blonde woman on a private yacht. His mother, Livia, in the midst of a rapid deterioration  in her health and sanity, refuses to relocate to a retirement community, as tony calls it, or a nursing home, as Livia see it, and continually  mourns the loss of her late husband. “He was a saint,” she cries, dapping a tissue to her teary eyes. Tony, though embroiled in deceptions of his own, is acutely aware of the problems plaguing his family and his business. He views the ducks as representations of his own family, and their departure as an ill omen for the future of the Sopranos.

Ultimately, our introduction to the world of the Sopranos is as much of a greeting as it is a farewell. The days when New York mobs threw World Series baseball games and held entire cities to ransom are long gone. What’s left are the tattered remains of once proud empires, old fools too stubborn to let go even in the face of imminent obsolescence, and arrogant youths trying to regain their ancestors’ former glory. The show paints a portrait of these two generations of men, the one seeking to regain their lost virility, and the other, younger generation, which seeks to supplant their aging relatives, and steal that virility for themselves. Tony Soprano, his uncles, and most of his associates, belong to the former, men who’s fathers grew up in a relative “golden age” of organized crime, who tutored their sons in the lessons of masculinity, hard work, being “tough”. Tony’s son Christopher, and the man he ultimately whacks, Emil, belong to the latter, dreaming of emulating their famous gangster forebears and winning back the glory of old. Photographers of famous gangsters from the 1940’s flash across the screen as Christopher pumps round after round into the back of a rival criminal, early jazz thumping in the background. “Loui Brazzi sleeps with the fishes,” Christopher snarls as they dispose of the body, quoting and ironically butchering the famous line from The Godfather. “Luca Brasi!” corrects his older companion impatiently in a scene that perfectly encapsulates the dichotomy between the two generations. “Luca Brasi.”

The episode ends with a long panning shot of the Sopranos’ birthday party in their backyard. As the camera rotates, the various family members gradually and steadily disappear off-screen. Finally, the camera ends on the now quiet and empty pool where the ducks once nested.

It’s not just the ducks that have moved on; the rest of the world has too.

 

Daily Detour: Throwback Thursday

Another from the yearbook vault!

Of course, one of the biggest responsibilities for our staff was covering all of the school’s sporting events. I personally loved photographing sports. It was tough, you had to take hundreds and hundreds of pictures, but when you got that one amazing photograph capturing a split second moment of action, it was all worth it.

This photo is definitely one of my favorite shots from that year. I don’t really like watching baseball much but it was definitely fun to photograph!

 

Oh-Venture of the Week: Genoa

About fifteen minutes outside of Carson City, nestled against the beautiful Sierra Nevada Mountains, resides Nevada’s first settlement, Genoa. Established in 1850 by Mormon pioneers in what would eventually become the Nevada Territory, Genoa was home to Nevada’s first newspaper, hotel, and court. The Genoa Bar, billed as “Nevada’s Oldest Thirst Parlor”, was frequented by such famous men as Mark Twain, Teddy Roosevelt, and Johnny Cash.

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Artist depiction of Genoa in 1850

 

Much of the town was destroyed by a fire in 1910, but many historic buildings survive and are now part of the Genoa Historic Distric, also known as Mormon Station.

This week I headed to the historic settlement to visit the beautiful little town and to learn more about the history of the proud state of Nevada.

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Examples of wagons used by the pioneers in 185003edit1resize3WATERMARK4  04edit1resize4WATERMARK5

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Took some time to visit the Genoa museum, located in the renovated Genoa Courthouse. Below is the original recorder’s room, filled with authentic 19th century artifacts from the Genoa’s historic era09edit1resize9WATERMARK10  10edit1resize10WATERMARK11  11edit1resize11WATERMARK12

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Exhibit on the original town Blacksmith, including a variety of tools and forges used in the day. 14edit1resize14WATERMARK15

The original jail cells used in the court. Apparently, when the courthouse was being renovated, a hole was found above the left jail cell. An inmate had attempted to escape by tunneling out through the roof, only to be failed by a ten inch plate of steel.15edit1resize15WATERMARK16

The renovated courtroom on the second floor of the courthouse. This room was easily my favorite, with its antique wooden floors creaking beneath your feet and the wide open room, really letting you imagine being part of courtroom proceedings in 1850.16edit1resize16WATERMARK17

Monument to Snowshoe Thompson, one of Genoa’s more incredible residents. Mail delivery in the area was made difficult due to the large amounts of snowfall. During these heavy winters, Snowshow, or John Albert Thomson, would strap on ten-foot skies and carry 60-70 pound bags of mail over the snow from Placerville to Genoa, and sometimes even Virginia City. Thompson never accepted payment for his deliveries, and even assisted in several snow rescues of stranded travelers. A large statue is dedicated to him in the town square, as is this exhibit. 17edit1resize17WATERMARK18

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Downstairs parlor of the courthouse. Lots of fascinating artifacts in this room. 19edit1resize19WATERMARK20

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Another really cool artifact in the museum: a bell originally cast in Sheffield, England. The story of the bell is a bit sad; the bell was shipped all the way from England to San Francisco, then brought over the mountains to the town where a group of settlers were intending to use it for their new church. However, the year the bell arrived also happened to be the year that James Marshall discovered gold at Sutter’s Mill, launching the Gold Rush of 1849. Most of the able-bodied men left the town, and the Church was never built. However, when the courthouse became a temporary school, it was decided that the bell would be moved to the courthouse. It is traditionally rung on Independence Day.21edit1resize21WATERMARK22

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The Genoa Bar! Nevada’s oldest thirst parlor, visited by the likes of Mark Twain, Johnny Cash, and Teddy Roosevelt. This place is AWESOME. Old, antique bar and bar stools and the whole place just feels like a time capsule, definitely a fun place to visit. Didn’t have time to get a drink, unfortunately, but I will definitely be back soon!  31edit1resize31WATERMARK32  32edit1resize32WATERMARK33  33edit1resize33WATERMARK34

 

Genoa is easily one the coolest places I’ve visited. So few historic towns are so well preserved, and in such a beautiful location. I had the good fortune to be visiting on an off-season day, so the town was quiet and serene. There’s so much history, and places to discover in this town, and most of the historic buildings are situated close together, making it easily to simply park your car and walk around and enjoy the town. Conveniently located just seven miles out of Minden and about fifteen minutes out of Carson City, this little gem of a town is a wonderful and easy place to visit. I will most definitely be going back soon.

Wednesday Anime: Aldnoah.Zero

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I’ve been looking for a new anime to watch for some time now, and I came across this show while browsing through some of the latest additions to netflix. Basically, the series revolves around two nations, one of humans on Earth, and another called the Vers Empire. The Vers Empire is made up of humans that immigrated from Earth some time ago and found super-advanced alien “Aldnoah” technology on the moon, which then allowed them to terra-form and colonize Mars. The colonists on Mars and the inhabitants of Earth eventually began a war against each other, until the portal from the moon to Mars, the “Hypergate” exploded and destroyed the moon. The show begins some fifteen years after this event, during a relatively tense ceasefire between the two nations. The Princess Asseylum of the Vers Empire is about to begin a peace and goodwill tour of Earth, and, of course, not all of the Vers are happy with this and put in place a plan to begin a new war on Earth.

It’s always hard to tell whether or not you’re going to like an anime from the first episode (its usually the third episode that makes or breaks an anime; often referred to as the “rule of three”), but so far I have to say I am interested. Lots of cool looking mechas, giant spaceships, and and Earth v Alien war scenario all was intriguing, especially as the the “aliens” in this case are humans as well. Its interesting that the humans, due to their extended stay on Mars, consider themselves and are considered by the Earthlings to be martians, even though technically both empires are the same race of people.  I think the scale of the conflict that is set up in the first episode definitely lends itself to some interesting storytelling, and we’ll probably be getting a lot of WWII allegory. I have to say though, loving the sci-fi overtones, the scale, and the steampunk/19th century British Royal Navy styles of the Vers Empire.

Overall, definitely an abundance of exposition and setting of the board, so hard of course to say for sure but its definitely piqued my interest and I’ll be watching and reviewing more of the series!

Other thoughts:

  • The Princess’ death almost certainly red herring; we’ll definitely be seeing more of her
  • Not necessarily sure what the Vers beef with humans on Earth is. Probably be getting more into that eventually
  • Slain is an awesome name
  • The monotone way that one kid says “Oh, we have to leave, there’s rockets” was cracking me up
  • The ending scene of New Orleans getting destroyed was epic; definitely and Independence Day feel to it. In fact, this whole series feels like its going to be a more intelligent, thoughtful version of that movie.
  • Ten bucks says that Colonel that hates Slain will end up being a good guy in the end

I’ll be watching a new episode of Aldnoah every Wednesday, and an episode of a different anime (yet to be decided) every Saturday! Stop by OhVentures for recap and discussion of each episode!

Daily Detour: Vans Warp Tour 2013

The Vans Warp Tour of 2013 was actually the first concert I’ve ever been to. Up until that point, I’d never really seen any “big” bands or groups live. But when the Vans Tour came to Dallas that year, I had my chance.

It was…interesting, at least. More than anything I just remember it being really hot, humid, and crowded.  But it was definitely a good experience, and it was fun being able to see exactly which of the bands there actually had any talent (a lot of them, in fact).

The highlight of my day there I think has to be seeing Bowling for Soup live. They seemed like a really fun bunch of guys who didn’t take themselves seriously, something that definitely translates to their mostly irreverent music.

Anyway, this is one of my favorite shots from my trip! Jaret Reddick is holding out his mic to the crowd, who are all enthusiastically singing the chorus to “1985”.

OhVenture of the Week: Into the Hills

There’s a scene early in the Fellowship of the Ring where Bilbo turns to Gandalf and says, “I want to see mountains, again, mountains!”

Living in the vast, flat state of Texas for the last two years I definitely felt the same way. At least a good two thirds of my childhood were spent in the mountains back in the west, either up north, or near the coast, or in the desert (the other third was spent sleeping, going to school, and doing homework).

Carson City, thankfully, has plenty of tall, beautiful mountains, most of which belong to the Sierra Nevada mountain range. I’ve been dying to get out and explore some of the trails in the area, and last week I got the chance when my folks headed out to do some exploring.  I hopped in Jon Snow and went into the hills!

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Beautiful valley in between the mountains. If you can believe it, there’s ranch down in that valley that’s for sale! Imagine owning your own private meadow!DSC00758 copy

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While we were at the bottom of the hill we found an Immigrant Trail marker! Many of the trails in the area were once used by people moving out west in the 1800’s, and these markers can be found all along the trails, usually with some story or info on what happened in the area or info on the trail itself. Very cool find!!

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Also, some photos from their site Wayalife.com that my parents were willing to share! They’re amazing photographers and everything I know about photography I learned from them! And am still learning!

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Daily Detour: The Balancing Rock

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If you’re looking for places to visit in the United States, then Moab, Utah, should be pretty close if not at the top of your list. Moab is truly one of the most beautiful areas I’ve ever been to, featuring some of the best and most difficult wheeling in the country. Every year during the spring thousands of jeepers flock to Moab for the Annual Easter Jeep Safari. I was lucky enough to be able to go one year, and while there we visited Arches National Park, an absolutely stunning area of natural arches and red stone.

The picture above is of the famous Balancing Rock, one of the park’s most popular attractions. Its a little difficult to tell from the picture, but the Rock is actually pretty huge, and its an amazing sight to see.

Hopefully sometime in the future I’ll get the chance to go back and be able to do a proper OhVenture!

Daily Detour: Throwback Thursday

One of my favorite things about wheeling is getting out into nature. The air is fresher, the skies are clearer, and everything just seems…calmer.

I feel like this picture really captures a lot of that. I took this as we were perched on top of a hill overlooking Laughlin, Nevada. We had just finished a day of wheeling and the sun had just started to sink below the hills, and I noticed the beautiful reflection mirror in the jeep’s glossy finish.

I don’t know if I thought much of it at the time, but looking back on the photo now I really like it a lot. I feel like it really captures that feeling of peace and happiness that comes from being out on the trail.

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Daily Detour: Winter is Coming

Okay, so its still pretty warm up here in Carson City. But we are in the north, and you know what that means! Winter is coming!

I personally can’t wait for it to get cold again. If I had to choose between living somewhere always hot, or somewhere always cold, I’d take the cold. You can always just put on more layers if you’re cold. If you’re hot, however, there’s only so many layers you can take off, and even then you still might be hot, depending where you are. Plus, colder weather is so much prettier! You get beautiful white puffy clouds sometimes, snow, rain, sunsets…just so much more, in my opinion. Don’t get me wrong, I love summer just as much as the next person. But winter will always be where I live.

Anyway, with winter on its way I just wanted to share one of my favorite pics of cold weather! I took this with my iPhone back when I was in Texas. Might be hot there at times, but when it cold, it really got cold.

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